Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Deep Friendship :: Distant Friends

“Deep friendship doesn’t depend on how many times friends spend time together or how happy they are. It’s the time when you never see them and yet keep on believing that the friendship will stay forever.”


I agree on what the quote connotes. It is true that deep friendship does not merely depend on the times you see other but rather it is how you value that friendship no matter how far or how often you spend time together.

I had friends whom I rarely see but every time we hang out the feeling is just the same like detachment has never occurred. The memories would come back in and a day is not enough to tell what had happen between us. You spend time reminiscing the past and talking of what had happen after you last met. Conversations may vary from who’s married, who got pregnant, and more.

Friends usually had the time to hang out with each other when there’s an occasion or so happen they met somewhere thus treasure each moment. Time may not be enough but what you just had will be treasured in memories and each other’s heart. It is the feeling of contentment of having such friends you can count on whether good or bad, high and low, deep or shallow.

Rarely will you have friends that value the friendship that you had and will have hence, if you find them you must treasure them because they aren’t easy to find. They said that you can’t choose your friends they choose you. Whatever it is whether fate or luck you were destined to be friends. Love your friends as you want them to love you. Ciao!!!

Saturday, March 31, 2007

Loving someone who completes you or the one who completely love you

Have you ever thought of choosing someone who loves you completely or loving someone who completes you? Is there a difference between two different entities?

This is an off-topic question but then has that question come into your mind? Well, I actually got that line from a movie and it made me think. Could it possibly be both? Is there such en entity to have both? If then it would be my perfect kind of guy. Moreover, it would be ideal if it was your bestfriend... Wouldn't it be nice or could it be worse?

A friend knows you best. Right? Ideally, relationship starts at friendship hoping that it will work into something more than friends. The question now is breaking up... If the breakup hurts then what you had before would be what? Trash? That's nonsense.... People do tend to forget the memories especially the happy ones. But come to think of it if breakup really hurts then it would be trash.

Now, I am going pointless to my topic... Back to what was my topic. I'd rather go for someone that loves me completely. Why? Because if he loves me completely then he knows me inside out... That person knows my weaknesses, my strong points and the things that I love and hate mosts. It is like complimenting each other. What do you think? Do I sound silly or naive?

Monday, March 26, 2007

Count on Me by Whitney Houston and Cici Winans

A song that makes me cry. Friends that we count on are true friends....

Count On Me
© Whitney Houston and Cici Winans

Chorus:
Count on me through thick and thin
A friendship that will never end
When you are weak
I will be strong
Helping you to carry on
Call on me, I will be there
Don't be afraid
Please believe me when I say
Count on...

I can see it's hurting you
I can feel your pain
It's hard to see the sunshine through the rain
I know sometimes it seems as if
It's never gonna end
But you'll get through it
Just don't give in cuz you can

Chorus:

Count on me (mm) through thick and thin
A friendship that will never end (ah)
When you are weak
I will be strong
Helping you to carry on
Call on me, I will be there
Don't be afraid
Please believe me when I say
Count on...
You can count on me
Oh yes you can (ah)

Oo, I know sometimes it seems as if
We're standing all alone
But we'll get through it
Cuz love won't let us fall

Chorus:

Count on me (count on me, i'll be there) through thick and thin
A friendship that will never end
When you are weak
I will be strong (I'll be strong)
Helping you to carry on (yes, you know)
Call on me, I will be there
Don't be afraid
Please believe me when I say
Count on...
Count on...

There's a place inside all of us
Where our faith in love begins
You should reach to find the truth in love
The answers' there within, oh
I know that life can make you feel
It's much harder than it really is
But we'll get through it (we'll get through it)
(Just) Just (don't) don't give in (oh)

Chorus:

Count on me (count on me) through thick and thin
A friendship that will never end (it'll never end)
When you are weak (you)
I will be strong (I will be strong)
Helping you to carry on
Call on me, I will be there
Don't be afraid (don't be afraid now)
Please believe me when I say
Count on
Count on
Count on
Count on
Count on
Count on me
Oh yes you can
I know I can
Yes you can
Well
So glad I can, count on me

Superfwen's summer outing...

The Superfwens will held a summer outing this April 9 with no definite plans of the how and where as of now but I will get you posted every now and then.

Updates of my superfwens:

Lhea Venice still at link2support
Louella at Freewill
Stephanie resigned at link2 however she had to do some follow-up on her CANADA journey... Go grl...
Julius at link2support
Shielamae at RCBC Oroquita
Yours truly at CEPALCO

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

Friendship Quotes

Quotes that I found captivating. Hope you like these....
"Friends never make assumptions about you. They never expect a reason to go out with you. In fact friends only expect you to be you!"
-Chandru Sockalingam-
"Your my best friend forever and always we're together too much but far not enough and if you die before I do ask god if heaven's got room for two. "
-Angel -
"Every time you cross my mind, I think how lucky I've been, to have you as my special friend. "
"Your best friends are going to hurt you every once in a while, you must forgive them for that."

"Forgivness is the key to your unhappiness."

"Compared to friendship, gold is dirt."
-Carly-
"True friends are the people who brighten your smile everytime your with them"
-Julia VeRost-
"The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him with friendship."
-Inge-
"I would rather you hate me for who I am than love me for who I'm not."
-~*Liz S*~-
"The best of friendships are the ones where two friends can sit on a swing, not saying a word, but walk away feeling like u just had the best conversation ever."
"The best way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost"
-Erin-
"Despite the advice about choosing your friends wisely, you really can't choose your friends. They choose you."
-Roger-
"The trouble is not so much dying for a friend, it is finding a friend worth dying for."
-Victoria O-
"Friends are like money in the bank, longer you keep them, the more they are worth."
"A person without any friends is like a tree without its roots."
"Friends are like bras...they give lots of support"
"Best friends need not be physically present, each keep the other company in the hearts."
-Lina-